Just Say
Yes: Safe Sex
Nobody has a
body to die for. Safe sex is always better! It's fun, and you don't
have to worry as much. Safe sex means making sure you don't get
anyone else's blood, semen, vaginal fluids, or breast milk in your
body -- and protecting your partners too! Condoms,
latex surgical gloves, and plastic wrap are the only way to protect
yourself and your partner from STDs and HIV, but they're not foolproof.
You've got to use them correctly every time you have sex.
The best condoms
for anal and vaginal intercourse are lubricated latex condoms. Always
use latex, because lambskin condoms don't block HIV and STDs, and
polyurethane condoms break more often than latex. Using lubricant
will make things go smoother and give you added protection. Lube
is especially great for women the first time you have intercourse,
or if you tend to get sore. But always use a water-based lube (such
as KY Jelly, Astroglide, Aqua Lube, Wet, Foreplay, or Probe). Oil
breaks latex. Don't use vaseline, hand creams or lotions as a lubricant.
Also, treatments for yeast infections contain oil and will break
latex. Oil is good for salads and cars, not for sex! You can buy
water-based lube and condoms at thedrugstore.
Women can use
vaginal foams or jellies with nonoxynol-9 with a condom for added
protection. But don't use nonoxynol-9 alone. Always use a condom.
(seeBirth Control.)
If you're going
to suck your partner's dick (blowjob), put a condom on it first.
Try non-lubricated or flavored condoms for this. Whatever you do,
don't get cum in your mouth, because you might have a sore throat
or small cuts on your gums (especially afteryou've brushed your
teeth).
If you're doing
someone with a sex toy -- vegetable, dildo, vibrator, or whatever
-- put a condom on that thing! Don't switch the toy from butthole
to vagina, or from one person's body to another, until you put anew
condom on it.
Some people
think that putting on a condom is too much work when you're supposed
to be having fun. But it's easy for condoms to be really fun and
erotic. Becreative!
here's what
you do:
Get ready. Make sure your condoms are fresh -- check the expiration
date. Throw away condoms that have expired, been very hot, carried
around in your wallet, or washed in the washer. If you think the
condom might not be good, get a new one. You and your partner areworth
it.
That dick has
to be hard before you put a condom on it. Open it.Tear open the
package carefully, so you don't rip the condom. Careful if you use
your teeth. If the penis is uncut (uncircumcised), pull theforeskin
back first. Make sure the condom is right side out. It's like a
sock: there's a right side and wrong side. First unroll it about
half an inch to see in which direction it is unrolling. Then put
it on. It should unroll easily down your dick. If you start off
wrong, try
again with a new condom. You'll see when you practice. Hold the
tip of the condom between your fingers when you roll it down. This
keeps out air bubbles, which can cause the condom to break. It also,
leaves a spaceat the end for the cum. Roll the condom down as far
as it will go. It should reach the base of the penis near the balls
For anal intercourse, use lots of lube. Water-based lube is great
for vaginal intercourse, too. Put the lube on after you put on the
condom, not before -- it could slip off. Add more lube often. Dry
condoms breakmore easily.
Guys -- when
you pull out hold the condom near your balls so it doesn't slip
off. Try to pull out while you're still hard. Take the condom off
ony after you are completely out of your partner.
Throw out the used condom right away. Use a condom ony once. Never
use the same condom for vaginal and anal intercourse. Never use
a condom that has been in, or used by someone else. Never cum more
than once in thesame condom.
Guys, practice
putting on a condom in a comfortable place where you have plenty
of time by yourself. You know what we mean! Practice makes perfect,
and you'll impress your partner. Girls, practice putting a condomon
a banana.
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